thoughts and thinkings of a woman navigating her twenties

occasional diary entries. sometimes in the form of handwritten notes. some extra words posted in between.

Dear Digital Diary,

Just kidding. My only resolution is to complete my bucket list. 

When I was younger, my family would set goals for the year. It wasn’t ever called resolutions, so I wasn’t super aware what that all meant until I got social media in eighth grade. The concept of it was always to lose or gain something else: lose fifteen pounds, get better at french. 

I never understood exactly why it was designed this way, losing or gaining, and purposefully making note to begin this new endeavor over the start of a new year. 

I believe that a new year is a new opportunity. Not to lose or gain necessarily, but a chance to live another year to the fullest. And thus began my yearly bucket list – it’s not a list of requirements that I feel are necessary for me to achieve to prove I lived out my year by productivity, but a list to show just how much one can experience in a year. 

The Bucket List of a 20-Something Year Old in Modern America (2026)

  • Travel to an island
  • Go camping
  • Sleep underneath the stars
  • Publish something
  • Visit a new city
  • Travel outside the country
  • Get a job that I enjoy
  • Go to a concert
  • Take a road trip
  • Go swimming after dark
  • Surf a wave
  • Take a dance class
  • Get an apartment
  • See a show
  • Learn to sail
  • Sell my art
  • Swing on a swingset
  • Snorkel
  • Participate in a wine tasting
  • See a bear
  • Go to a sports game (and see my team win)
  • Go somewhere where French is spoken
  • Plant a plant
  • Travel somewhere with my favorite cousins
  • Ride a horse
  • Stay by the seaside
  • Get film developed
  • Take a trip in a van
  • Take a train in a foreign country
  • Watch a film that my sister is in
  • Get a new therapist 
  • Write a letter
  • Make a birthday cake
  • Freelance
  • Visit a friend in another state
  • Sing karaoke 
  • Paddleboard 
  • Celebrate my birthday with people I love
  • Watch a new Marvel movie in theaters
  • Go on a trip with my sister
  • Buy a new record
  • Take a ferry
  • Hike a mountain
  • Enter a contest
  • Celebrate an anniversary
  • See a lion
  • Attend a wedding (or crash one) 
  • Read at least 26 books
  • Teach something

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